Thursday, June 18, 2009

Frustrations of life with two

I'm a big fan of telling it like it is. Although I usually share the good, funny, and fun parts of parenthood on this blog, there are a lot of frustrating parts too. When Micah was a newborn, I took him everywhere and it was never really a big deal. Now that I have two, I'm seeing the world through a whole new set of eyes and a completely new respect for parents with two or more children, especially those with multiples. I could tell the stories here, but the entries would be really long. Suffice it to say that I wish stores put more thought into who their customers are. I know it's asking a lot - before I had children, I wouldn't have thought twice about cart size, having to wait in two different lines to exchange one item, or having to walk the length of a football field with two kids because the only lines open were the ones at the other end of the store from where I was. Now I find myself getting really frustrated in these stores and trying my hardest not to take it out on innocent employees. I have spoken to a lot of managers, and while I'm reasonably certain that me speaking to them isn't going to change their policies, I at least feel better for having spoken my mind. Maybe I have found my calling in life. I've always enjoyed (a little too much) being an advocate for my rights, and maybe I can apply that to motherhood. Maybe I can start an advisory panel of parents and go around to different stores and restaurants and offer our services so that they can become more family-friendly. With our economy in the state that it's in and stores desperate for customers, maybe this idea could really take off! Given my recent experiences, I'd start by taking my panel to these three stores. They need the help! :)

3 comments:

Chad, Katie and Chloe said...

AMEN!!! I was at Target today, ready to check out and I realized that I left my wallet in the car (and it was rainy). Not wanting to take both kids out of the cart for a 10 second run, I politely asked a group of associates if they would walk with me, the kids and the full cart (of unpurchased things) to the car (parked in the very front of a row... you could see it from the front door) so they could see I wasn't shoplifting. "Unfortnately we can't do that" said the lady... "but I can watch your children while you run out..." Well you know as well as I do, I have done this before and was not comfortable leaving Chloe with a total stranger... (and i told the lady this) but what were my options? So again i left my kids with a total stranger. I am ticked that they couldnt help out by walking with me to the car. In retrospect i should have just left then and left the cart, full, in the front of the store... to make my point, but i didn't... urgh!

Bill and Laraine said...

Double Amen!! I have been there. However, now I am contending with a mother in a wheelchair. I wish these stores (and others) would allow space between the racks of clothing to negotiate a wheelchair! I also need to leave her clutching her purse outside the store (or inside) to repark my car!

Robin Ilac said...

I totally agree! I'm really bothered too by stores or restaurants that do not have restrooms with changing tables, I always say that there should be some sort of law that requires changing tables everywhere in public (especially in men's restrooms because Daddy should be changing diapers in public places too!) Don't even get me started on why is it that restaurants don't always have highchairs that work. Why are they missing belts or so loose I fear that my child is going to fall out?